Aside from my 19 year, monogamous (mostly) marriage, the longest mono relationship I have had the past 11 years is 1.5 years long.
- The average one in the USA lasts 17 to 24 months.
- 30% of those are cheating on each other
- Women terminate 70%+ of these
In 2021, I made the choice to finally ditch Monogamy and start ENM ( ethical non-monogamy) and now my average relationship is 3 years long! Almost double that of Monogamy so far.
Now, I do not believe there is a perfect relationship model, which is why I recommend people ask themselves, “which model is the least bad“, versus “best” relationship model.
I am 110% convinced that monogamy is the fastest way to get rid of a woman forever.
No, not immediately, but in about 2 years or so, odds are very high that you will never see her again, if you become monogamous with her today. Let that one sink in.
